Steps to Deal with the Difficult days as an Entrepreneur
This morning on twitter one of my mentee’s was clearly having a bad day and reached out to me on twitter and what ensued made me think this was a brilliant way for me to demonstrate how I have dealt with failures in business and coming back after those for success.
Read about my failures here
Step 1
The Frustration
Having one of those moments when you want to say f*** it, i’m done with this s****. @ethelcofie a word or two will do……..
— sirkingsley (@Paapakwame) August 11, 2017
Step 2
The Questions
lol I am the entrepreneur whisperer
— ethelcofie (@ethelcofie) August 11, 2017
then i ask a question
Which is better praying for no problems or learning to deal with every problem that comes ur way so u know u can thrive through anything ?
— ethelcofie (@ethelcofie) August 11, 2017
He is not convinced
hmmmmm………i hear u ooooo……. pic.twitter.com/QTGqP0pSFw
— sirkingsley (@Paapakwame) August 11, 2017
then i ask him a question to help him see his problem in context…
Let’s count how many of these things have u survived . Lol make an actual list.I am waiting.. https://t.co/dcJLDT1dsk
— ethelcofie (@ethelcofie) August 11, 2017
-It Gave Him Context
Here u go…..not even sure if thts all😂 pic.twitter.com/DqUqaEEDlt
— sirkingsley (@Paapakwame) August 11, 2017
The Questions are to Help Him Change His Emotional State Enough For Him to See Light at the End of the Tunnel
chale i wonder how i even survived…recounting some of these experiences now and i’m like damn!! I shld be history by now….literally
— sirkingsley (@Paapakwame) August 11, 2017
then i help see how this problem could possible help his future
lol……i pray dey dnt categorize it as fake news….hehehehehehe
— sirkingsley (@Paapakwame) August 11, 2017
Step 3
Now Pointing Him in the Direction of the Solution to Problem
Ok next thing who else has dealt with the particular issues u are dealing with now and can u give them a call to ask how they did it? https://t.co/2R8McIWprj
— ethelcofie (@ethelcofie) August 11, 2017
Notice I did not even need to ask him the specifics of the problem, I just gave him the framework to enable him, help himself.
Remember just like an entry level employee who joins a company should not expect to perform like the C level executive in that same organization it takes time and experience , remember entrepreneurship journey will teach us lessons , we need to learn them and master them.
There are differences between entry level entrepreneur and a master entrepreneur. Keep going and learning, unlearning and mastering entrepreneurship
I have also experienced downfalls as an incoming entrepreneur….This framework has helped this second to realise the power I have inside…so will not let my current failures keep me down. Thank you Ethel Cofie